tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-160027032023-11-15T07:19:02.856-06:00Random AbstractThis blog's purpose is to explore - randomlyUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16002703.post-79617052601560581402007-01-28T08:33:00.000-06:002007-01-28T08:34:02.721-06:00To My Nephew<span style="">Hey Mason!<o:p></o:p></span> <p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin-bottom: 14.15pt; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 200%;"><span style="">When your Dad came down to Milwaukee for our Grandma's funeral we got to talking. Like any proud Dad, Andy spoke about you and Foster. The more we talked the more I heard from your Dad how much you and I are alike. When I was in the 5th grade (you know back in the stone age). I read about 20 books about the civil war and I was into politics and how the country was being run. We had Vietnam. Your generation has Iraq (I don't like George Bush either!). By the way here are two great links with pictures of the civil war: <a href="http://www.mikelynaugh.com/VirtualCivilWar/New/Originals2/index.html">http://www.mikelynaugh.com/VirtualCivilWar/New/Originals2/index.html</a><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin-bottom: 14.15pt;"><span style=""><a href="http://www.civil-war.net/cw_images/index.htm">http://www.civil-war.net/cw_images/index.htm</a><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin-bottom: 14.15pt; text-indent: 35.45pt; line-height: 200%;"><span style="">I remember reading books and learning things that you were supposed to get in college. I think you learn like that too. It's a cool thing but, at the same time, it can be hard for other kids to understand or keep up with the things that you like. That's really why I'm writing. I want to tell you how proud I am of you, to let you know that I am thinking of you and if it's ok, write (exchange emails?) with you about any and all the things you like to learn. Maybe that's what Uncles are for? <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin-bottom: 14.15pt; text-indent: 0.4in; line-height: 200%;"><span style="">I'd love to hear about what you think about the State of the Union, the beginning of the universe, how countries should be run, how computers are both good and bad, the best way to make a tackle-anything your mind is focusing on right now. Here's a quote that means a lot to me: <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin: 0in 0in 14.15pt 0.4in; text-align: justify;"><span style="">A human being should be able to change a diaper, plan an invasion, butcher a hog, conn a ship, design a building, write a sonnet, balance accounts, build a wall, set a bone, comfort the dying, take orders, give orders, cooperate, act alone, solve equations, analyze a new problem, pitch manure, program a computer, cook a tasty meal, fight efficiently, die gallantly. Specialization is for insects. -Robert A. Heinlein <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin-bottom: 14.15pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="">What do you think? <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin-bottom: 14.15pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="">Much Love <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin-bottom: 14.15pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="">Matt <a href="mailto:matt.hakes@gmail.com">matt.hakes@gmail.com</a> <o:p></o:p></span></p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16002703.post-1128525492672256172005-10-05T10:15:00.000-05:002006-11-11T22:06:42.010-06:00Cool Design<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/5039/30/1600/random_abstract1.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/5039/30/320/random_abstract1.jpg" border="0" alt="" /></a><br />Living a life of random abstraction is better than the linear definate.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16002703.post-1127920536330906002005-09-28T10:13:00.000-05:002005-09-28T10:15:36.336-05:00It just so happens...It just so happens that I am fluent in shorthand (a skill I would recommend for any ADDer!). I took this silly quiz and wouldn't you know it...<br /><br /><img src="http://images.quizilla.com/D/deadword/1082607731_sktopGregg.jpg" border="0" alt="It 's comforting to say that 'practice makes perfect'...."><br>You are 'Gregg shorthand'. Originally designed to<br>enable people to write faster, it is also very<br>useful for writing things which one does not<br>want other people to read, inasmuch as almost<br>no one knows shorthand any more.<br /><br />You know how important it is to do things<br>efficiently and on time. You also value your<br>privacy, and (unlike some people) you do not<br>pretend to be friends with just everyone; that<br>would be ridiculous. When you do make friends,<br>you take them seriously, and faithfully keep<br>what they confide in you to yourself.<br>Unfortunately, the work which you do (which is<br>very important, of course) sometimes keeps you<br>away from social activities, and you are often<br>lonely. Your problem is that Gregg shorthand<br>has been obsolete for a long time.<br /><br><br><a href="http://quizilla.com/users/deadword/quizzes/What%20obsolete%20skill%20are%20you%3F/"> What obsolete skill are you?</a><BR> <font size="-2">brought to you by <a href="http://quizilla.com">Quizilla</a></font>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16002703.post-1125503876126708422005-08-31T10:57:00.000-05:002005-08-31T14:10:18.236-05:00Living And Loving The Truth<span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;">Living And Loving The Truth </span><br/><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;">The First Step Toward A Spiritual Understanding of AD/HD</span><br/><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;"></span><br/><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;">In my personal (an ‘ADDer’) and professional experience (counselor) I have found that living in the truth is the cornerstone of mental and spiritual health. We may not like the truth, but if we are aware of the truth we can stop the hopeless battle of wishing, wanting, desiring things to be otherwise.</span><br/><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;"></span><br/><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;">Take for example, a diagnosis of AD/HD. Once a person is confronted with a diagnosis-a cascade of questions results. But the most fundamental question must be: </span><br/><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;"></span><br/><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;">“Is it true?”</span><br/><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;"></span><br/><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;">Is it true is a question for two levels: </span><br/><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;"></span><br/><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;">On the external level:</span><br/><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;"></span><br/><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;">Does AD/HD de facto exist? There are my people profiting from promoting bad information about AD/HD, even to the hyperbolic position that AD/HD is a ‘made up’ diagnosis. The first truth that must be embraced is that AD/HD, while a label, also summarizes a set of behaviors and symptoms that affect lives. Knowledge about AD/HD is far from complete; but </span><a href="http://www.nimh.nih.gov/healthinformation/adhdmenu.cfm">the preponderance of scientific</a><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;"> and historical research verifies the existence of AD/HD as a real disorder. </span><br/><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;"></span><br/><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;">On the internal level:</span><br/><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;"></span><br/><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;">Assuming a </span><a href="http://merck.micromedex.com/index.asp?page=bpm_brief&article_id=BPM01PS04" target="_blank">professional diagnosis</a><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;"> the question then becomes, “Is it true for me?” There is an advantage to being diagnosed as an adult. An adult can reflect and see the debris, the failures and frustrations that the disorder has perpetrated in their life (that no amount of ‘free will’ could overcome). Couple that reflection with the testimony of those closest to you and the truth should be evident.</span><br/><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;"></span><br/><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;">Yet, many fight it.</span><br/><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;"></span><br/><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;">I understand that if ‘the pieces don’t fit’, that is, if people who know you well don’t agree or you can’t see the pattern in your life then the diagnosis should be suspect. But if the pieces come together, the diagnosis–the truth-can be liberating. To love life, to love yourself, you must see yourself as you truly are. </span><br/><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;"></span><br/><a href="http://www.clas.ufl.edu/users/gthursby/mys/texts.htm">Mystics from many traditions</a><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;"> might inject a spiritual element here: To start on the road to happiness and a spiritual understand of who you are you must begin to see you, the AD/HD you included, with no judgment. Not good, not bad, but “yep that’s me,” or “I do that.” We must do this simply because it situates us in the truth-as it is. We are conditioned to feel that this about is good or that about is bad.</span><br/><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;"></span><br/><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;">Stop the conditioning.</span><br/><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;"></span><br/><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;">How do you stop the conditioning? Well, that’s a subject for an upcoming blog.</span><br/><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;"></span><br/><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;">Begin by accepting and living and loving the truth of who you are-as you are. This is the first step toward a spiritual understanding of AD/HD.</span><br/><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;"></span><br/><span style="font-family:Trebuchet MS;"></span><br /><a href="http://technorati.com/tag/adhd" rel="tag"></a><br /><a href="http://technorati.com/tag/add" rel="tag"></a><br /><a href="http://technorati.com/tag/spirituality" rel="tag"></a>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16002703.post-1125437770910590692005-08-30T16:36:00.000-05:002005-08-30T21:57:01.966-05:00Some Future TopicsSome future topics in random order:<br /><ul><li>Taoism and ADHD</li><br /><li>The ‘Little Prince’ as a metaphor for ADD spirituality</li><br /><li>The present – the spiritual gift of ADD</li></ul>Keep checking back!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16002703.post-1125429486717703572005-08-30T13:34:00.000-05:002005-08-31T10:35:40.283-05:00<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/5039/30/1600/a_adhd.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer;" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/5039/30/200/a_adhd.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a>Random Abstract<br /><p style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><br />This blog's purpose is to explore, enunciate and celebrate the spiritual journey of person's diagnosed with <acronym title="Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder">ADHD.</acronym></p> <p style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><acronym title="Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder"></acronym>Some assumptions:<br /></p> <ul><li style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">those qualities that are the hallmarks of this disorder can be affirmed as a valid, spiritual approach to life.</li><li style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">the medical/psychological aspects of ADHD are well<a href="http://www.add.org/"><acronym title="www.add.org"> documented</acronym></a><span style="text-decoration: underline;"> </span>and these clinical areas, while inseparable from any spiritual discussion, should not be the primary focus of this blog</li> <li style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">regarding the facts of ADHD, we must stick to what is scientifically accepted</li> <li><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;">regarding the spirituality of persons with ADHD we must respect everyone's experiences and viewpoint</span><br /><br /></li><br /><br /></ul>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0